mayalld Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 As an Editor on a different website, I know how the moderators feel. All those who moderate this site are volunteers (as are all those on the site where I am an Editor), and as such do this thankless task for free, in their own spare time. And whilst on the site where I am we do get the occassional free product samples to review, I very much doubt that on this site there is any reward for the moderators at all. To have to deal with 'difficult' members can be tedious to the extreme, especially if you have just come home after a long day, or night, at work. To be honest, often the temptation to ignore a fractious post, especially if it is a repeat, is overwhelming. After all, the moderators are under no obligation to answer your PM. Sure, it would be courteous to do so, but as they are volunteers, and the site is for free, and you have not 'bought' a service as described, it is a simple case of 'like it, or lump it'. It irritates me to no end (occassionally anyway), that those who use a free service like this, expect the volunteers to be at their beck and call, and expect a 'full time, paid level' of service. I too work, in my spare time on a website. That brings me a fair raft of e-mail, including regular e-mail correspondence that arrives at least once a week (and has done for the past 5 years) from a particular gentleman who imagines that he has found a fault on the site or its data. I consider that having put myself into that position, I do owe those who send messages a response, and they always get one (even the weekly correspondent). It is a matter of simple courtesy. As to the moderators, sure they can discard courtesy and ignore PMs, but I find it astonishing that in sending a message informing a user that he is blocked, they provide an e-mail address for correspondence then ignore it. That is, to my way of thinking extraordinarily discourteous. But no matter! The moderators are entitled to be rude, and I am entitled to say that they have behaved rudely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 (edited) But no matter! The moderators are entitled to be rude, and I am entitled to say that they have behaved rudely. Very true, but as I have said before we must never assume that an internet forum is a democracy, they can with the click of a mouse have any of us 'disappear'. Unjust, probably but a fact none the less. I speak as someone in a previous forum life got into a escalating spat with one of the mods. and I got snuffed out in such a way. This one should anybody be wondering Edited November 25, 2009 by MJG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mayalld Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Very true, but as I have said before we must never assume that an internet forum is a democracy, they can with the click of a mouse have any of us 'disappear'. Unjust, probably but a fact none the less. Oh, indeed they can evict anybody on a whim if they choose to do so. Fortunately, they can't prevent the story being told. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nine of Hearts Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 (edited) Didn't you mean this? "Mine is a long and a sad tale!" said the Mouse, turning to Alice, and sighing. "Fury said to a mouse, That he met in the house, 'Let us both go to law: I will prosecute you.— Come, I'll take no denial; We must have a trial: For really this morning I've nothing to do.' Said the mouse to the cur, 'Such a trial, dear sir, With no jury or judge, would be wasting our breath.' 'I'll be judge, I'll be jury,' Said cunning old Fury; 'I'll try the whole cause, and condemn you to be banned from the forum for a whole week.' " Edited November 25, 2009 by Nine of Hearts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLWP Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Shame the forum software takes all the padding spaces out when you post something. I really like that ta(il/le) Richard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naughty Cal Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Am i losing my marbles or my memory? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomsk Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Am i losing my marbles or my memory? I think the Mods have acted, wisely in my view. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 (edited) Am i losing my marbles or my memory? Now you see it.....and now you don't, anyway you were only complaining the other day that you miss all the fun Edited November 25, 2009 by MJG Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLWP Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Who was that masked stranger? Richard Wonder if there are warnings being handed out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naughty Cal Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 anyway you were only complaining the other day that you miss all the fun Maybe i just cant remember it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomsk Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Who was that masked stranger? Richard Wonder if there are warnings being handed out? I think it may be a Summer Pudding each on our new norty-scale. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackrose Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 (edited) Are you an accredited 'Naughty Gal' then? I'm impressed!! What was your transgression? I got accused of making thinly veiled threats, though after the event the complainant admitted he may have got it wrong. It's all good sport!! You're misrepresenting what I said. I thought we had let this one drop but since you insist on dragging stuff up from a couple of years ago, I never said I may have got it wrong and I wasn't the only complainant. I admitted only that I regretted winding you up in the first place because of your uncivilised reaction. The term 'thinly veiled' was I think pretty charitable, given that you implied you were nearby and said you were looking forward to meeting me on a dark towpath! If that's all good sport to you then I think we can see exactly where you're coming from. Edit: I didn't ban you for 3 months, Jon did, based on your posts that he read. Edited November 25, 2009 by blackrose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Muck Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 (edited) Errm, the title of this thread is Warn Bar , not 'Start your Flame Wars Here'. Can we all please leave it alone. Please? Pretty please? Edited November 25, 2009 by Lady Muck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLWP Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Errm, the title of this thread is Warn Bar , not 'Start your Flame Wars Here'. Can we all please leave it alone. Please? Pretty please? Go on, threaten them with "Death by Chocolate"... Richard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackrose Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Errm, the title of this thread is Warn Bar , not 'Start your Flame Wars Here'. Can we all please leave it alone. Please? Pretty please? Yes, ok. Sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomsk Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 You're misrepresenting what I said. I thought we had let this one drop but since you insist on dragging stuff up from a couple of years ago, I never said I may have got it wrong and I wasn't the only complainant. I admitted only that I regretted winding you up in the first place because of your uncivilised reaction. The term 'thinly veiled' was I think pretty charitable, given that you implied you were nearby and said you were looking forward to meeting me on a dark towpath! If that's all good sport to you then I think we can see exactly where you're coming from. Edit: I didn't ban you for 3 months, Jon did, based on your posts that he read. Calm down Rose, I was only discussing the matter with Fil, I have no interest in re-visiting the tawdry and silly affair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lady Muck Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Go on, threaten them with "Death by Chocolate"... Richard I was thinking Rocky Road might be more apt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naughty Cal Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Calm down Rose, I was only discussing the matter with Fil, I have no interest in re-visiting the tawdry and silly affair. Oh please tell more Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Oh please tell more No lets not - if it's something that happened such a long time ago I for one am just not interested, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLWP Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Oh please tell more Ahem, see post 63 by Lady Muck the Moderator Richard Is she in a Happy Families pack of cards? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cotswoldsman Posted November 25, 2009 Author Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Actually if some-one referred to me as a McDonalds Apple pie that would be a 'real' insult they have got to be one of the most sickly ghastly concoctions any fast food emporium has ever turned out, oh and yes they're a bluddy H&S hazard too, hot - I don't think the earth's core is hotter. As you can probably tell I have had one recently. i think the McDonalds milk shakes need a H&S warning even a Dyson vacuum cleaner on full power would struggle to suck on of those. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Naughty Cal Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Ahem, see post 63 by Lady Muck the Moderator Sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RLWP Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Sorry Well, with your newly-reduced warn bar and all I thought you would like to know. Richard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomsk Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 i think the McDonalds milk shakes need a H&S warning even a Dyson vacuum cleaner on full power would struggle to suck on of those. The secret is to let it melt slightly first and always take an additional straw for when the first suffers Catastrophic Collapse. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris-B Posted November 25, 2009 Report Share Posted November 25, 2009 Very true, but as I have said before we must never assume that an internet forum is a democracy, they can with the click of a mouse have any of us 'disappear'. Unjust, probably but a fact none the less. I speak as someone in a previous forum life got into a escalating spat with one of the mods. and I got snuffed out in such a way. This one should anybody be wondering Ahh I too have been told off there ........ Chris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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