Lady Muck

Do I get one for my cleavage? Ive already had a complaint from a Thunderboater for swearing. I confuse. Ive got the serious I wants for this book now, its missing from my collection, meaning my mother (gawd bless 'er) hasnt yet spotted one in a charity shop.

I can't see any evidence of sanitising anything in recent weeks. I've never sat here in an ankle length skirt running searches for naughty words and asking people to be 'nice'. On the other hand what is wrong with wanting to be kind? Not enough kindness in the world. And the amount of dishonest, toxic, energy sapping uneccesary drama, relentless bitching, rumour spreading, singling out and cross examining, bullshit about a bloody Facebook convo that I didn't know existed, bullshit about a supposed blacklist, bullshit about us supposedly being in bed with CRT, all of that, people lying to their

I'm not discussing individuals. But some pms we have received from members (now ex members) were so abusive they broke the law, so why on earth would we not ban someone in that instance. Does it somehow not matter when they are in private? Any fule kno that that the worst of abuse will go on in private.

I don't mind. It was a reasonable question to ask.

If you judge a situation purely on what someone tells you or what you've seen in public, you might not be getting the whole story.

Well, you'd think so wouldn't you, but that's not what happens in some cases. If they continue to disrupt the site -eg, they get a mate to c+p the same sort of disruptive posts on here. If they continue to waste our time by creating sock puppet accounts. If we think they are using a mates account to continue to post. We've banned people and then they've gone on to harass us (and disrupt our lives and families) in different ways, offline /away from forums and social media/ it breaks the law, we report it where it happens/to the cops. In that case they won't be permitted to come back. If

Well, not quite, we admit it was over used when the team were stretched, I can remember back in the day, I used it once, I was alone, we had a disruptive member and I needed some sleep. They were on modqueue overnight until I'd discussed it with the team. I personally think this may be the only reason to use this function. We don't want to use it anymore, it's time consuming for all of us, its frustrating for someone who just wants to have a discussion.

Zip Superstarter firelighters, they're pricey, but I always keep some in because sometimes I don't manage to get chance to get kindling. They're massive and burn for about 30 minutes, the way I use them is put one in the bottom of the burner and build a loose 'pyramid'' ontop, making sure you leave some air gaps.

If I could give you a greenie for this, I would. You are spot on.

I'll start really worrying when they decide to convert the basement!

theres a narrowboat currently moored near me that has a cratch built with conservatory technology, it sticks out in all directions. I hope they're not planning any trips up the Stort. I can't help but think that some people really wanted a house and are making do.