Well it doesn't really matter what anyone else thinks, it's a matter of what suits you and your needs. Hire boats with different sterns, or go to boat shows and clamber all over them, to see which you like.
Having hired, I know that cruiser sterns are good socially, but you're completely exposed to the weather. They also (IMHO) don't look quite right. Having been on lots of boats at shows, I found that trads could be extraordinarily difficult to get in and out of. It's different if you've got a really traditional boat with an engine on display, but when the engine's under the floor, you end up with a little room that you have to bend double to get in to. And you have to do the contortionist act every time you want to get in or out of the boat at the stern. So, for me, a semi trad seems the idea option: room for more than one person, some protection in the rain, and easy to get in and out of the boat.
But don't take my word for it, find out for yourself.