January 2013 after 40 years of working and paying stamp and PAYE I found myself claiming benefit for the 1st time, utterly soul destroying, my advisor at the job centre was patronising judgemental and bloody useless! after 6 weeks I had a stupid and horrible accident on the boat that led to a huge skin graft on my left thigh and buttock with the donor site being my right thigh, the result was neither leg worked and abysmal agony for 12 weeks, I struggled to get on the boat and once on I struggled to get off, long story short this March I went back to the job centre having had no work or income since christmas, the same woman interviewed me and asked me why in a superior tone and I gave her it straight, sooner eat every 3rd day, go cold, no coal gas or diesel because of HER attitude the year before but hey you just cannot work without some sort of sustenance, fortunately my new advisor was a real bloody star and actually helped and advised, now been working 7 weeks, 6 of those at 50+ hours but got food in my cupboard, gas, diesel and bloody hope in my life again
so f**k all you argumentative buggers on here, life can be really hard sometimes and them feeling it do NOT need you to knock em down, be petty tories or just plain tw@ts to make a plea for help seem like begging from the great unwashed
rant over, life can be hard, this can be a great site but it can also drain the hope and life out of you