Edited to add Three paragraphs removed due to an error of mistaken identity
There is no relationship between the attractiveness of a forum and the number of rules. There is a relationship between the attractiveness of a forum and the way the rules are applied.
Take Justcanals, for instance. The moderation is applied there in such a way that people don't use it.*
I know of another forum based in USA where the moderation is combination of the light touch and transparency, as espoused by Carlt particularly, and strict sanctions for severe rule breaking. That forum is enormous and very popular and active
I know of another forum that does not use light touch and transparency. rule breaks are simply removed and any criticism of moderators results in instant ban. It is also a huge forum and very active. But I suspect there are so many people on it and the moderation is so quick that the strict moderation goes unremarked.
* Now I know that people will leap on that statement and claim that is exactly where CWDF is going - but I don't believe that.
One of the major problems this forum has now is that there were mistakes made earlier this year. Though I do believe that the people who were got rid initially are better off out of here simply because they refused, and still refuse, to accept that they had the right to express themselves in any way they liked on CWDF and should be allowed to fight between themselves all over the forum - thus turning the atmosphere on CWDF to extremely unpleasant if not toxic.
Arbitrary, high handed, and emotion based moderation is very poor and not good for the forum but I do have sympathy for the reasons behind it when it happened here.
Nicknorman is fond of using the phrase "being able to use the forum like an adult". I have a great deal of sympathy for a lot of what Nick said but this is where I fundamentally disagree with him. Using this forum like "an adult" does not, for me, mean that people should simply "grow a pair", "man up", and "if you might not like it don't read it", are acceptable. That point of view is just another way of saying "I'll post how I like and you can like it or lump it",
For me using the forum like an adult means that you behave in the way the rules and guidelines ask for i.e. that you do behave in a reasonable way, with courtesy and respect, and having consideration for those who might look at the discussion, though might not contribute to it.
Needing to justify yourself by insisting that people should "grow a pair" etc is the right way is a good indicator that you want to ignore the forum rules and be self indulgent. In that case thunderboat is exactly the right place for them.
My belief is that this forum can get back to where it was but things change. The internet changes things including the way people express themselves on a screen. The rules and guidelines need to reflect this, in my opinion. They don't at the moment