I don't think internet forums have had their day or I hope not.
I do now delve into a few more, but mindful of what Ive seen here, I am careful what I post.
I think the somewhat dictator style approach to certain posters has not been in my mind, fair play. In fact the way some members dealt with seemed very unpleasant.
Some posters no doubt offended in their style of posting but we always had the option not to read or engage in those threads. Banning for period of time could give us all relief from threads we didn't have to read anyway, though i do accept personally directed poisonous comments are upsetting and unnecessary.
Some posters did go what to me seemed too far but what followed ...namely a cull of any who overstepped whatever line had been drawn in the sand in retaliation was in itself a step to far.
I do see moderators give their time freely and that having to keep 'alert' for those who are out to stir troubled waters must be time consuming.
2 wrongs do not make a right.
As to face ache..for me it'll never replace a forum. The trivia on there inspires nausea.