Do it the simple way, feed it from the ignition on terminal, probably daisy-chained to the + terminal on the gauges and warning lamps. You could use the IG lead on the alternator, but I suspect that may be a sense lead and a pulsing lift pump MIGHT (not will) affect that.
The easiest way is to use a multi-meter set to ohms or preferably buzz.
Look at the photo, one terminal is black and has never had a cable on it, so ignore that. Then there is another 10mm blade that shows scratches where the female part had been pushed over it. My GUESS is that this is likely to be the + input, but we can't be sure.
The relay has a white wire on it (ign. controlled +) and I think a brown one hidden at the back of the photo. Brown = batery +, so that is all as I would expect, so we can now do some tests
Connect one meter wire to the WHITE cable terminal on the relay (push a nail between the plastic cover and the actual terminal to get a good contact).
Touch the other cable to all the terminals on the back of the switch. Only the one with the white wires should buzz or show almost zero ohms.
Turn the switch to the ignition ON position and touch all the terminals. One of the large blades should beep or show zero ohms. Note which one and change the wire on the relay to that terminal. Turn the switch OFF
Step around all the other switch terminals with cables on them and NONE should buzz.
Now turn the switch on and step around the cables, only the ones with the white wires on should buzz.
Turn the switch to the glow plug position and step around again, the extra one that buzzes is the glow plug terminal/wire.
Turn the switch to start and step around again, the extra one that bizzes is the "energise starter solenoid" termial/wire.
I don't think Beta have a stop position on their installation so, you now know which terminal does what. I would get a marker pen and mark up the switch.
It is far quicker and easier to do that to read or write how.
PS, if you had the diagram for the panel, rather than the engine, it would give you the info you need.