Towage at sea and on narrow restricted waterways are altogether different. The rudder of a butty is called an 'elum' by working boat people who dropped the 'h' of helm in their language. Alan_fincher and BEngo have explained how commercial narrow boats worked, breasted up or on cross-straps on wide canals such as the Grand Union when empty, or using a 20' snatcher between the motor and unpowered butty on short pounds (distance between locks), or a 90' snubber on long pounds when loaded. Towing a modern pleasure boat is another thing altogether as they will not generally have a sufficiently large rudder to be steered without thrust from the engine, and the towing boat was probably never designed with towage in mind, and its engine may well not be up to the job. Their relative drafts will also differ, as they are neither fully loaded nor empty, and the way one boat affects the other will not be the same
For someone experienced it would be a matter of trial and error until the ideal method could be found, but at least they would have something to go by. An inexperienced boater will have no background to understand what might work and what might not, so it would be a matter of chance. Chance would likely as not mean the towline fetched up around the blades of the tug, and the tug gaining more dents in the stern every time they got stuck in a bridgehole or arrived at a lock - an unpowered boat has no form of brakes other than running up the bank.
Tam