Perhaps you misinterpreted my post...I do not recollect saying I felt sorry for Max..she's doing her best and sometimes despite having a go, doing your best it doesn't turn out quite as it should...Ive bin there, got the T shirt and if I lived nearer and Max wanted some assistance and if I could help, I would go up...Just as I help others I can...for example the knotweed I fight is not actually my knotweed..it is the responsibility of disabled farmer but I've dealt with it because he cannot and if not done it will invade my property..
I never ask anyone to feel sorry for me..nor did I expect it...and I don't think Max wants anyone to feel sorry for her.
Max is getting to grips with a world she knew little about...and hopefully the advice on here is helping her.
Have a good day