Dar Kuma Posted November 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 I just find it a bit weird that this guy has a few boats but doesn't want to sell to someone thats interested in buying 1 of them. especially when I have the cash and it's gonna put some money in his pocket/bank in time for christmas. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kris88 Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 Why not just offer him the cash payment he asked for and see what happens. If you really want the boat. Regards kris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dar Kuma Posted November 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 Cause If i go up there and he still says no I'm stuffed and I don't fancy sleeping rough for 1 night in near freezing temperatures 300 miles away from my comfy landing bed. Yes I currently sleep on a friends landing, Can't wait to get out of here away from barking dogs and gurgling babies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kendal Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 Then talk it through with him first over the phone. Tell him you really want the boat and you will pay cash when you get there, agree a figure and tell him you won't mess him about, then make sure he is ok with that. Explain it's a long journey for you and that you have to take the boat straight away. Sensible and honest communication is the key, ensure you both understand each other and provided he is legit then everything should be fine. No more sleeping on the landing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Fox Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 There are some guys (and a gal?) going up the Northern Oxford Canal at the moment in two boats, they could be looking for someone to help out and that may be the kind of thing you're looking for? You could try out the Good Life before you commit yourself to buying your own vessel? Here's the link: http://www.canalworld.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=71845&page=1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dar Kuma Posted November 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 Then talk it through with him first over the phone. Tell him you really want the boat and you will pay cash when you get there, agree a figure and tell him you won't mess him about, then make sure he is ok with that. Explain it's a long journey for you and that you have to take the boat straight away. Sensible and honest communication is the key, ensure you both understand each other and provided he is legit then everything should be fine. No more sleeping on the landing! I've emailed him stating that, no response, guys, It's not like I havn't tried here. Emerald Fox, I've owned 2 boats in the last 5 years in case you missed the post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtB Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 I've emailed him stating that, no response, guys, It's not like I havn't tried here. Emerald Fox, I've owned 2 boats in the last 5 years in case you missed the post. If you can't tell the difference between talking to the bloke and emailing him, then there is no hope. MtB 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dar Kuma Posted November 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 you have no hope Mike. why would I call him when he emailed back a response telling me the only option in his mind is for me to travel about 300 miles and give him the cash, since when can you haul out an obscene amount of cash out of a local building society, you can't. T00 black and white for you people? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kris88 Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 Amazingly enough in this modern world, there are still people who deal in cash. It used to be the only way to buy things. I bought my boat with cash. It's not that unusual. Regards kris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dar Kuma Posted November 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 (edited) next you'll be telling me that I can buy my groceries with groats.... I like how certain people are telling me this, If the guy is doing a dodge then I don't want to be an accessory in helping him. Edited November 27, 2014 by Dar Kuma Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
5thHorseman Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 (edited) Reading this thread I could feel my grip on life fading away. If he has three boats he is probably, at the very least a visitor, on this forum. If I was him after seeing your opening comments I am not sure what I would do but at the very least I would yank your chain over the deal. Do what the seller wants and buy the b*****y boat or walk away. Edited November 27, 2014 by 5thHorseman 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dar Kuma Posted November 27, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 This is before I actually made the Post, I didn't called him a weirdo Immediatley, I don't judge right off the bat like some people. I just found it strange to have only 1 option basically thrown at me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kendal Posted November 27, 2014 Report Share Posted November 27, 2014 If you can't tell the difference between talking to the bloke and emailing him, then there is no hope. MtB Greenie for that Mike. I find the lost art of personal communication tends to engender some trust between the parties, strange that init! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gaggle Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 WHY ANYONE WOULD CONSIDER TURNING UP TO A PREARRANGED LOCATION AT A PREARRANGED DAY WITH A LOAD OF CASH IS BEYOND ME , IT HAPPENS QUITE OFTEN THAT PEOPLE TURNING UP TO BUY CARS MOTORBIKES AND OTHE SUCH ITEMS ARE RELIEVED OF THE MONEY AND SOMETIMES GET A GOOD THRASHING JUST TO MAKE SURE THEY REMEMBER HOW FOOLISH THEY WERE TO TURN UP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kendal Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 WHY ANYONE WOULD CONSIDER TURNING UP TO A PREARRANGED LOCATION AT A PREARRANGED DAY WITH A LOAD OF CASH IS BEYOND ME , IT HAPPENS QUITE OFTEN THAT PEOPLE TURNING UP TO BUY CARS MOTORBIKES AND OTHE SUCH ITEMS ARE RELIEVED OF THE MONEY AND SOMETIMES GET A GOOD THRASHING JUST TO MAKE SURE THEY REMEMBER HOW FOOLISH THEY WERE TO TURN UP I see you are from Liverpool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Fox Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 "since when can you haul out an obscene amount of cash out of a local building society, you can't." -er... yes you can! It's your money. Or you can quickly arrange for it to be paid in cash. I do hope you don't use Facebook or Google, as you would be an accessory into large conglomerates squirrelling away what they should be paying in taxes into their Cayman Islands tax havens. If the guy 'is' doing a dodge then he'll be quite at home with most of the rest of the British population. (Showing non-discrimination, Finns too are a bunch of crooks, especially the politicians). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athy Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 . (Showing non-discrimination, Finns too are a bunch of crooks, especially the politicians). Ah yes, we've all heard of the Seven Deadly Finns. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emerald Fox Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 'Finns' aren't what they used to be Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dar Kuma Posted November 28, 2014 Author Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 I have no trust for people anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtB Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 Ah yes, we've all heard of the Seven Deadly Finns. Here's yer coat.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athy Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 (edited) Here's yer coat.... It wasn't my fault, Sir, it was that weirdo Brian Eno. Entirely. From the start to the Finnish. Edited November 28, 2014 by Athy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
billS Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 Where are the cries of "racism"? Is the outrage bus in for it's MOT or are the Finns just fair game for negative stereotyping? But then that would make the usual criers of "racist" racist. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athy Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 are the Finns just fair game for negative stereotyping? No, though they do sound fishy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MtB Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 No, though they do sound fishy. But they know their plaice.... OMG you'll have started it off big time again Athy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Athy Posted November 28, 2014 Report Share Posted November 28, 2014 Bless my sole, you are a dab hand at blaming me for goodness' hake. Your comment is off the scale. Now just huss your mouth, please. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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