Thank you for all of your replies. I especially appreciate Site Crew for being straight with me as now I am clear.
Although our intentions are honest and innocuous, I fully understand the reason needed for caution. Feel free to cast aspersions on me, as my ex wife and ex mother in law did it all the time.
For added information, we are Americans writing from the United States. As such, you'll probably see many more daft questions that I post.
By the by, it is 5:30pm where I am, shouldn't you all be at pub quiz now???