Against my better judgement, I will post this to simply clarify a few inaccuracies of the below which are based, I believe, on my last post in cwdf on the 9th of Oct in the "A wee flounce" Thread ... (sorry I don't know how to put a link to that thread, so I used a copy & paste method); as well as my thoughts and beliefs
Posted 09 October 2016 - 06:16 PM
Hi All,
Just a quick and short thank you for the past 3+ years of advice, ideas, support, help & laughs.
I have taken the decision to no longer post in threads, I will check in every now and than and have a read; and will use the PM facility to ask questions when I need to of the relevant members.
The forum has changed, and I no longer feel it has the same appeal it did for me, 3 years ago when I joined.
All the very best to you and happy cruising
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To each their own, live and let live
This (in the Blue ) was theonly reason I chose to no longer post here.
Although there is some weight in the bold bit above, the communication I had with a MOD was 'the proverbial straw that broke the camel's back' - as a grown woman I really resent being spoken at, as if I was a knotty child. I had actually been unhappy for some time before that and had lost pretty much all of the allure the forum once held for me. The locking of the 2 legal threads was pretty much the end for me. The initial MOD communication I received regarding me starting the "At the risk of being sanctioned....." thread, where I asked 2 questions, "When" could we expect to hear back a final decision from the Admin team & and "Why" were the threads locked. Now it's obvious, by the title I chose, I knew I was running some level of 'risk' but was happy to risk it as I knew I wasn't trying to start a thread to continue on with the topic's content, but there was a small chance that someone may take it as such, which is what indeed did happen and it was quickly locked & removed - fair enough, and that's how I felt about it at the time & still do. It was the PM'd comments I received afterward & the knotty child tone they contained that was the nail in the coffin for me. In hindsight & fairness I could/should have asked in a PM to DHutch those two questions and I believe I would have got a response, not necessarily the crystal clear answer's that I was hoping to receive but a response never the less.
And yes, although I still pop in here most days it is for usually less and less time each day. I've found another boating forum, which I must say isn't anything at all like the 'den of heathens & vagabonds & carpet beggers' that it is professed to be when discussed on this site. Isn't it great there are two to choose from or be a complete free spirit and be a member of each
For clarity, I also asked "when" we could expect to hear the outcome of the 'admins discussion & pending review" about the future state of those two threads, I was most interested in the one that had been running for 15 months. I figured, obviously wrongly, that a day and 1/2 would be suffice to have that discussion and get back to us; as one had been such a long running thread and both had important (IMO) boater related content, and we had heard nothing. Never in a million years, did I think it would take 18 days to get answer to the when portion of the question, Although I haven't had a chance to read them yet I've heard that one of them has been re-instated, although locked; people at least have access to read the information that was posted up to the 8th of Oct. Any info after that date relating to that case is available on another boating discussion forum.
And since I'm here Mr. MtB....it wasn't a "flounce in a strop" it was simply "a wee flounce", which I tried to do with as much grace as possible Just sayin like...
This ^^^ is completely True. It was my decision and my decision alone to take a break from openly posting on this site. And nor will I be posting again, unless it changes to something I find alluring enough to actively participate in. Some may say that is a very selfish view to take, any and all my thoughts have already been posted by many other members over the past couple of weeks, so really I look at it as one less poster banging on about the same changes I would like to see and feel are needed for the forum to flourish.
hmmmm, Just to be clear....
much more consistency in the moderation is needed
IF a thread "needs" to be locked, the rule it breeches should be posted then and there by the MOD who locked the thread, even if it is pending further investigation/review. That should be the only time threads need to be locked - when they are breaking a rule which is laid out in the rules & regs of the site, IMO
IF a MOD needs to edit a post, again the reason should always be stated; at present some do and some don't
Along with the obvious rules of no swearing, abusive posts, libel or slander (sorry I forget which is written and which is verbal), etc in large part I believe the site could be run on self modification and the report button - put in a rule that along the lines of "challenge the content / context of the post, not the poster" will soon get rid of the clique's that have formed, along with getting the forum to a place where adult conversation/discussions can take place which would also include some light hearted humor being injected.
I really like Carlt's idea of the re-instatment of the CA section; although I missed it completely when it was here before as I was offline for a few months, I get the general gist of it. Those who are not interested in the topics discussed need not enter and for those of us who are interested in both general politics and boating related politics would have a place to hold discussions or observe them.
Finally I feel there needs to be much more consistency when banning is done. The member who is banned really should be able to access the information of why they were banned as in what rule did they break. As well I believe it really should be a last resort after progression of warnings or sanctions. I appreciate this isn't a place of work and so not quite the same thing, but I have never worked in a repeatable company that doesn't have a policy of the very least 3 strikes and your out, more often than not it's a 1st verbal warning, 2nd written warning, 3rd written warning next occurrence your out. Mind you the verbal warning is only kept on your file for 6 months, 2nd & 3rd for 1 year. Obviously Gross Misconduct, which included stealing, fighting and falsification of company records etc., didn't fall with-in that frame & resulted in immediate termination after an investigation than taken place. I would suggest that the vast majoriety of active posting members are of a working or retired age and most would be familiar with such practices, (unless self employed) and would be fairly easy to introduce and implement once the rules of the forum have been finalized as I understand they are being looked at currently as well as loads of other work going on.
See, pretty much all of my imput has already been covered by others - no sense me adding fuel to the fire.....Whoops...actually the stove needs some more coal, gotta run.
Till then, take care everyone, and thanks for all the kind words and well wishes posted in A wee flounce....
Active - as in pop in most days for a look/read, some days I log in, to check my PM's other days I don't bother logging in since I'm not currently posting on the open threads.
My last post on the threads was the 9th of Oct. on the A bit of a flounce... thread
Right, I'm back off to my wee (but wide) hermitage now to continue my learning about Battery Charging & Management, & viewing the Autumn pic's threads on the "Lite Side" forum
Till later, take care everyone, and thanks for all the kind words and well wishes posted in the A wee flounce....Thread; and including me in your thoughts today on this thread.
B~
ETA - missing word (believe it or not)