I too am surprised at 10 "greenies" as I am not sure what they are. From the context, I imagine they are sort of unripe "Brownie Points"? Anyway they seem to be good things to have, so thank you to those who have made a kind donation.
Back to your question - NO, I certainly wouldn't think anyone considers you one of "the bad boys" as you put it. As far as I can remember I have always found your posts very helpful, balanced and informative. Never rude or disrespectful. Keep'em coming I say.
One aspect of this subject that I think is relvant is the natural differences observed in different areas of the country. I have found that northeners tend to be much more forthright in expressing themselves, and southeners much more reserved. So what is normal to one community can be seen as "rude" or "weak" to the other. Likewise with different upbringing - one family is used to being loud and direct, another quiet and more diplomatic. So one group behaving in its normal way cannot understand why the other takes offence at their conversation. Of course its not as black and white as that, with many shades of grey in between, but you get my drift. I do think that is often at the root of many arguments that descend into abuse, that we see here and, I understand, on other forum type sites. Add to this, the spoken word has the benefit of expression and tone to help convey your intended meaning, which is lacking in the written word, its perhaps not surprising that misunderstandings occur.
In view of all this, perhaps we are not too bad here after all! We just suffer from being normal.
Brian